Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Why have kids?


I dont get it. Why have kids?! And Im not saying dont have any... what i mean is why have ones that take 9 months to come out and come with awful pain! See its not that i hate kids, sure... they are annoying pieces of shit but... they are adorable and i'd like them too someday... someone asked me a few days ago "Do you want to have kids? If so what would you name them?" and I was like, "i dont know... its not like im having them on my own so it wont be my decision what to name them. As for having kids, i really would appriciate it if I was given the choice to have them or not."

Because i dont really want a life coming out of me. Its 'beautiful' and everything sure whatever you wanna call it, but jeez it fukin hurts. I dont want that kind of pain. Then theres the other fact... i mean, there are SO many children in this world who dont have a family, so many abandoned kids that need parents and people that can take care of them... and the least we could all do is adopt a child, its doing a big good deed on its own. Its not too different then giving life you know, you still are giving life, to someone whome it would mean more.. then someone who you take awful pain for and then they grow up to give you shit!

So i really think adopting a child is just like bringing a life into this world. It just seems pointless having children whent there are so many that dont have a home. Just because you can do it for free and the goverment doesnt charge you to have sex without protection, doesnt mean you have to!

4 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

i can agree with what your saying, i want my own kids one day, but the tought of some many un-loved children out there eats away at me.. i want to adopt one day, but will i love it as much as id love my own child?.. ugh so confusing.. <3

October 05, 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

well i rekkon kids are awesome...woodnt u want lil tina's running around ur place tina..??..i certainly woodnt..:P..jks jks i guess girls woodnt wanna have ne kids..coz of al the PAIN!!..i wood hate a big watermelon kinda thing cumin out of me!!...ewww bad thort..ok ill go now...SAWAN..:)

October 05, 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey tinooo ur soo mean....now as a punishment iam gonna give u my BABIES to take care of...hehehe love ya byee....adel

October 06, 2005  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

hmmm i know what you mean...when i was ur age i always wanted kids..bcoz that time i nvr knew it involves some pain..but i was lucky to hv ceaserians.and i also thot of adopting a kid but never could do so.till date i hv a desire to adopt but u knw tina our lives are so unstable so i dont wanna bring a life into it which i cant take care of..
love u lots

October 08, 2005  

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